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Facing the pain within

You and I have at least one thing in common: we’ve both suffered damage as a result of living in a broken world. And what we do with that damage determines the kind of life we’re going to live.

We all have pain within.

Most people deny, ignore, try to forget, suppress, or otherwise minimize that pain, but that doesn’t make it go away. Instead, it festers, coming out later as addiction, anger, arrogance, depression, disease, dysfunction, marital infidelity, sin, political activism that doesn’t help anybody, and so on.

This denial is a form of dishonesty. We lie to ourselves and pretend we’re okay when we’re not.

Some people have even converted this dishonesty into a Christian teaching. We’re supposed to forget the past, ignore what happened, and pretend it didn’t.

In the process, we circumvent the deep work God wants to do in our lives, and replace it with try-hard Christianity which tells us to ignore the pain and work hard to make God happy.

But we can take our pain directly to Jesus. We can look at what happened, find those painful lies—the harmful messages that play in our heads and feel true (even if we know they aren’t), and ask Jesus, “What do You want me to know?”

When Jesus speaks His truth into our lives, the lie—and with it the pain—evaporates. We’re left with peace and the grace to live a better life.

More in my most recent video.

Be encouraged!

Dwight

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Why some people will never understand the Bible—and what you can do to unlock its meaning

Many people claim to be able to tell you what the Bible teaches. Some of what they teach is good, some is pure baloney. How do you tell the difference?

Here are some thoughts that might help.

The Bible is unlike any other book.

Paul writes, “The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit.” (1 Corinthians 2:14 NIV)

If we want to understand the Bible, we must invite the Spirit of God to teach us. If He doesn’t teach us, then we won’t understand it. We might think we do, but we won’t. This is true for all of us; none of us are exempt.

How do you get the Spirit of God to teach you?

I’m going to skip over some things I hope are obvious—I have a video that goes into more detail—and get right to the sticking point:

If we want the Spirit of God to teach us the Bible, we must remain correctable.

This is where many wannabe Bible teachers seriously mess up. They think they can use the Bible as a weapon to go and correct everybody else. But they don’t shine the spotlight back on themselves.

We need to remain correctable. We need to be humble enough to admit that we don’t know very much. We might think we have it figured out just to discover we don’t. We might think we’re okay when we’re not.

My beliefs and my understanding of the Bible have changed over the years. They continue to change as I grow. That doesn’t mean that I’ve abandoned Jesus or abandoned the faith. Not at all. I love God more now than I ever have. But I’ve allowed the Spirit of God to correct my false or incorrect beliefs.

If your beliefs haven’t changed in twenty years, then you might want to ask yourself: Are you really growing? Are you correctable? Or do you think you’re so smart that God can’t teach you anything?

I need to ask myself the same questions. We all do.

We don’t reach a point where we are beyond God’s correction.

One of the biggest things that keeps people from understanding the heart and mind of God is arrogance. We cannot be arrogant and understand the meaning of the Bible. Its meaning will elude us. God gives grace—and, I might add, wisdom—to the humble.

Many people try to get the Bible to agree with their theology or their lifestyle choices. Let’s be honest, we’ve probably all done that. I certainly have. But I see people twist and turn the Bible to try to get it to say yes to what they want it to say yes to. If we go to the Bible to try to wrestle it to the ground to get it to say what we want it to say, then the meaning of the Bible will escape us.

We must remain correctable. God calls the shots; we don’t. He’s in charge; we aren’t.

If we want to understand the Bible, we must be willing to admit we could be wrong. Some Bible teachers are willing to admit everyone else could be wrong, but won’t turn the spotlight back on themselves. That’s a dangerous place to be.

James talks about the wisdom that comes from above. What does that wisdom look like? Humility. Submissive. Correctable. (See James 3:13-18.)

If you take that posture toward understanding the Bible, it will yield its secrets to you.

Be encouraged!

Dwight

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The Gift of Repentance

“…in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth…” 2 Timothy 2:25

Repent. Repentance.

These are Bible words–words that you don’t often see or hear, except maybe in church, or on a sandwich board sign.

But they are important words, and they are deeply misunderstood.

For most people, repent has a confrontational, negative, or even comical connotation to it. The idea is this: People are bad. God is mad. Clean up your act. Repent.

But that doesn’t begin to convey the real meaning.

Let me tell you a little story. When I was three years old, I lived on a farm with my grandparents. One day a man came onto our farm, started up Grandpa’s tractor, and drove it away.

I was hysterical, horrified. Someone was stealing Grandpa’s tractor!

But then someone who had access to more information than three-year-old me told me the truth: The man was borrowing the tractor. He had Grandpa’s permission. Everything was okay.

To repent means to change our minds, and it really carries the idea that God lets us in on something we didn’t know before–something that completely changes everything.

When we get the truth from God, our fears subside, our shame evaporates, our anger diminishes, and we are at a deep, deep level… okay.

It is a gift. Given by God.

You need it. I need it. We all need it.

More in this video…

Be encouraged!

Dwight

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What the creation evolution debate teaches us about ourselves

I’m going to try to discuss this without triggering you. I don’t know if I will be successful.

Let me start with a joke: A creationist, an evolutionist, and God walk into a bar. Which one of them was around when the universe started?

Okay, maybe that’s not a joke. But there is a point to that question, and maybe you can pick up on what that point is.

Creationism vs. evolution is characterized as a conflict between Bible thumpers and scientists. On one hand, we have those who believe that the earth is 6,000 years old with God creating Adam and Eve and all the different types of plants and animals at the beginning. On the other hand, we have those who believe the universe is 14 billion years old, that matter, energy, life, and humanity came about through naturalistic processes and God was not involved.

But that oversimplifies reality. This conflict is a kaleidoscope of ideas encompassing science, philosophy, and theology. Many different models have been put forth to try to make sense of science, philosophy, and theology. Young earth creationists believe the earth is six to ten thousand years old, that the universe was created with apparent age. Others hold to the gap theory: God created the universe in the distant past; a disaster occurred between Genesis 1:1 and 1:2, and the six days of creation that followed was actually God “terraforming” earth—and that happened about six thousand years ago. There’s the day-age theory: each of the six days of creation was not a literal day, but an age of uncertain length. Some have used Einstein’s Theory of Relativity to argue that the earth is simultaneously thousands and billions of years old, depending on your frame of reference. Some believe in theistic evolution—that God oversaw the evolutionary process as His method of creation. And some, of course, believe that God was not involved.

Which one is true?

I don’t know. Like the two of the three in the bar, I wasn’t there. Are any of them true? Or is there another explanation that we haven’t thought of that more accurately tells us what really happened? Again I don’t know.

Don’t misunderstand me. I believe in God. I believe in the Bible. I believe the Genesis account is true, but I’m not 100% sure how it should be understood.

And the purpose of this post is not to try to settle that question. Instead, I want to talk about what this conversation says about us as human beings, what it says about our culture.

Are you familiar with the idea of positioning? Positioning is a marketing term. It means controlling how other people think about you, your ideas, your products, your business. Positioning is what allows one person to charge $50,000 for a coaching session while another person—dispensing the exact same advice—has trouble collecting $5.

Elections are all about positioning. Political parties and candidates work very hard to position themselves in your mind as capable, caring, competent, and so on, while trying to position their opponents as dangerous and/or bumbling idiots.

The naturalistic evolution folks have done an incredible job with positioning. They’ve managed to position themselves as “science” and therefore factual, reliable, true—and to position creationism as “religion” and therefore a myth, a fantasy, a feel good story that has nothing to do with reality.

This is why evolution is taught in public schools and creationism is not. One is “science.” The other is “religion.”

The idea is that you can hold to this schizophrenic worldview that evolution is true on a scientific level and creation is true on a religious level.

Yeah.

A while back I looked up “creationism” on Wikipedia. The first line? “Creationism is a pseudoscience.” In other words, it’s a false science. It’s a myth. It’s a fairy tale. It’s what intellectually inferior people believe.

Stop. Pause. “Pseudoscience”—what is that? It’s name calling. It’s not an argument. It’s not a proof. It’s not a carefully thought out premise with evidence behind it. It’s just name calling.

And name calling is not science. It’s positioning.

You may or may not be aware of this: There are scientists who are young earth creationists. There are scientists who are old earth creationists. And yes, they’ve looked at the science, and yes, they have scientific reasons for believing what they believe.

There are scientific arguments for creationism, but those arguments are systematically withheld from you. They’re not allowed to be taught in public schools because—remember—evolution is science, and creation is religion.

Why are these arguments and ideas—why is this science not allowed at the table?

Because those who control the narrative don’t want it there. Why don’t they want it there? Two reasons: (1) The most frightening thing for an unbeliever is the idea that he or she will stand before God at life’s end and need to explain to Him why they lived their life the way they did. While it may be an unconscious priority, it is, I think, the #1 priority in their lives—removing God from the universe. Naturalistic evolution is a tool for removing a troublesome God. (2) Their power and influence rides on their narrative. If their narrative fails, their power and influence dies. And humans, above almost anything else, love to cling to power.

This is the point you must understand. Controlling the narrative controls the positioning. It keeps people in power who want to stay in power.

Of course, this applies to much more than creation and evolution.

We are supposed to live in a nation with a First Amendment right to freedom of speech. But we don’t have freedom of speech. Certain ideas are restricted, not allowed, prohibited by those who hold power and influence.

For example, a close relative suffered a stroke. His doctor hinted that a much touted medical procedure may have caused that stroke.

Why can’t I tell you what that procedure was?

Because I don’t have freedom of speech. Neither do you.

In our culture we talk about DEI—diversity, equity, and inclusion. You may have your own thoughts about that. But let me say this: Here’s where we DON’T have DEI: in the world of ideas. Certain ideas are dismissed, marginalized, ridiculed, and banned.

Why?

Because they’re wrong? No, not necessarily. Instead, because they don’t match the narrative that those in power want to preserve.

Can I shake you awake?

Do you have any idea how dangerous this is? Controlling how people think is the essence of totalitarianism. It leads to—and already has led to—the criminalization of political dissent. It will destroy our nation if we don’t find the courage to stop it.

Minority ideas must have a place at the table. They must be openly discussed so that we all can look at them and see if they have any merit. And we all need to teach ourselves to think so we aren’t conned by whoever comes along that’s good at positioning.

How has the church responded to all this?

I’ve seen two responses, and I’m not excited about either one.

First, some Christians have become combative. They know that they know that they know that the earth was created 4,004 BC and so on, and their approach is: It’s my way or the highway.

In my view, that’s arrogance, just like claiming that God had nothing to do with creation is arrogance. We are, after all, human beings. And human beings don’t know very much.

Second, and in some ways more disturbing, the church has retreated, surrendered. Today’s church is almost exclusively focused on seekers and spiritual infants, and, out of fear, there are certain topics—like this one—that are not discussed because the thinking is: Let’s just get them to Christ. Let’s get their ticket to heaven settled. We can deal with these other issues later.

But later never comes.

So yeah, I don’t think creationism vs. evolution is really about religion vs. science. I think it’s about arrogance, control, positioning, marketing, fear, and clinging to a narrative we desperately hope is right.

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This is a little different than my normal post, but it has been swimming around in my mind, and I felt like God wanted me to share it.

Much love from my home to yours!

Dwight

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God is love

If someone were to describe you in a single word, what word would they use?

Exciting? Mysterious? Determined? Relaxed? Or some other word?

It’s hard to sum up a human being in a single word, and it’s even harder to sum up God in a single word. But the early Christian leader, the apostle John found that word, and he shares it in his first letter. Here’s what he writes: “…God is love.” 1 John 4:8

God may be many things—Creator, all powerful, all knowing, eternal, holy, and the list goes on—but the one attribute that eclipses them all is love.

What is love?

Love places high value on another being—not for selfish gain—but for their lasting benefit.

In humanity, we see broken forms of love. A husband “loves” a wife until she no longer makes him feel good, then he abandons her like a broken toy. A parent “loves” a child until that child makes life choices that disappoint. A friend “loves” another friend until that friend votes for the wrong candidate. And so on.

God’s love is not broken. It doesn’t waver, it doesn’t falter. It remains.

God’s love is wise. A loving parent doesn’t allow a little child to eat a whole bucket of candy. In the same way, God doesn’t always let us get our own way because He knows best. He understands things our small minds and small hearts cannot yet comprehend.

God’s love is empathetic. When you hurt, God hurts. When you’re happy, God is happy with you. He feels your pain. He’s cheering you on.

God’s love is protective. God sees and knows better than we do all the things that threaten our fragile existence. He works to protect us from anything that could do eternal damage to us, as well as most things that can do temporary damage.

God’s love is healing. Living in a broken world, all of us sustain injury to our bodies and souls. God cares about those hurts, and He heals. Some of that healing happens in this life; the rest in the next.
God’s love is open handed. Love isn’t love if the other person isn’t free to walk away. God will always love us, but He won’t make us love Him in return. That’s up to us. We can stay in a loving relationship with God, or we can turn around and walk away.

God’s love is forgiving. Yeah, we mess up, and God understands that. But He’s ready to give us a fresh start. We fall down, but He helps us up, dusts us off, and gets us back into the game.

God’s love is embracing. God wants to be with you. He likes hanging out with you. He likes being your friend. He likes you. He likes entering your world. (Are you letting Him in?)

God’s love is eternal. This life is too small to contain the love God has for you and for me. So God designed a much bigger life—eternal life—so that He has room to show us all the different ways He loves us. The apostle Paul writes, “That is what the Scriptures mean when they say, ‘No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love him.’” 1 Corinthians 2:9 NLT (quoting Isaiah 64:4)

Here’s the video version of this post on YouTube!

Have a super week!

Dwight

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Our connection to Jesus

The apostle John is clear: “Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life.” 1 John 5:12 NIV

But what does it mean to have the Son?

Jesus said, “Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter. Many will say to Me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name cast out demons, and in Your name perform many miracles?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; leave Me, you who practice lawlessness.’” Matthew 7:21-23 NASB

Clearly, our link to Jesus needs to be a whole lot stronger than, “Oh, yeah, one day I prayed a prayer. Something about Jesus coming into my life. Thought I was good with that.”

So what does it mean to have the Son? What do you think?

The best I can make out, it means we invite Jesus in and allow Him to be who He wants to be, and to do what He wants to do. We open the door to Him, and we keep it open. He will find other doors in our lives that need to be opened, and we open those as well.

It isn’t a performance. We don’t do tricks for Him to make Him happy. We’re not saved by our “good works.” But we are saved by His good work in us. His good work transforms us and makes us citizens of the Kingdom of Heaven.

I go into this question in my latest YouTube video “002 Am I okay with God.” The title has a number in it because it’s part of a YouTube playlist—Your Guide to Following Jesus.

In other news, I’m writing a novel. If you want to follow it, here’s the YouTube playlist. If I can get my laptop fixed, I plan to post chapter 2 sometime on Wednesday.

Much love from my home to yours!

Dwight

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What’s the first thing you need to know?

So… I have a question.

What’s the first thing a person needs to know in order to follow Jesus? I mean to successfully follow Jesus. Not pray a prayer and go off and do your own thing, but to develop a meaningful, sustainable Christian faith.

I’m reading a book that laments how unsuccessful evangelistic campaigns have been. The author cites (among other things), a study where 30,000 decisions were made for Christ. Six months later, researchers could only find 30 people who had continued on in the faith. That’s a 99.9% failure rate! Only 1/10th of 1% continued on in the faith.

What gives?

What do you think we’re doing wrong?

I’ve given this a lot of thought over the years, and I have some ideas, but I’d love to hear yours as well.

In response to miserable statistics like these, I’m working on a series of videos and pdfs I’m calling Your Guide to Following Jesus.

Here’s the first video: “001 How to Test Drive the Christian Faith

Also, over the weekend, I spoke at my home church on true grace vs. false grace. All I have right now is a Facebook link. Let me know if you’d like me to post on YouTube as well. (My Internet is really slow, so posting a long video takes 8-10 hours to upload.)

Anyway, I’d love to hear from you…

Have a super week!

Dwight

PS. If you’re subscribed to my YouTube channel, I think I’ll have a little surprise for you in the next several days. My wife keeps encouraging me to do something, and maybe I’ll just follow her advice.

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I didn’t believe him at the time, but now I do…

About 35 years ago, a pastor friend of mine said to me, “How you think about God changes everything.”

I didn’t really believe him at the time. But now I do.

How we think about God—at a deep level—changes how we experience life, and it changes all the choices that we make. It determines whether we make God the center of our lives or whether we make Him a hobby or throw Him out altogether.

We live in a messed up, broken world. And why is it broken? Because ever since the serpent whispered, “Did God really say…?” our thinking about God has been broken.

Those of us who call ourselves Christian are not immune from wrong ideas about God. I’ve seen some pretty strange ideas of God come from churches including:
* God is my drinking buddy
* God is the mascot for my political party (both parties)
* God is a monster

No, they didn’t use those words, but I can read between the lines. And, yes, I’ve held bad ideas about God (and probably still do). I used to see God as aloof, remote, uncaring, disgusted with me.

In my latest book, How to Fix Everything, the first chapter is How to fix God.

Does God need fixing?

Of course not. But our idea of God needs fixing, and it is the starting place to fix everything else in our lives.

If things aren’t right in our lives and we’re wondering where to start to fix the problem, we start here: fix our idea of God.

I posted a two-minute video with some added thoughts.

Be encouraged!

Dwight

PS. I’m really excited about a new project I’m working on. I’m planning a step-by-step Christian discipleship program (video + pdf) that will be helpful for new and experienced Christians. If that sounds interesting, or if you have any ideas about what you’d like to see in something like that, ping me back and let me know. 🙂

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Exactly how are we saved by grace?

For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast. Ephesians 2:8-9 NIV

We’re saved by grace. But how?

Here’s what I thought in the past: Our ticket to heaven was canceled because we sinned. But Jesus died for our sins. So we could accept the free gift of eternal life from Him, and our ticket to heaven would be restored.

But then I started reading and rereading the Bible, and I ran into verse after verse that made me uncomfortable. Faith without works is dead. (James 2) If we live the wrong way, we won’t see heaven. (Galatians 5) Not everyone who calls Jesus “Lord” gets into heaven. (Matthew 7) And so on.

It took me a long time to puzzle this out, but it finally makes sense to me now.

Grace fixes things. It fixes everything. It’s like the repair technician from heaven that fixes everything that has gone wrong in our lives. It fixes our identity. It fixes the damage we’ve sustained in a broken world. It fixes our tendency to sin. It fixes our inability to live up to heaven’s standards. It fixes everything.

And if grace isn’t fixing things in our lives, it may be time to ask if we have the real thing.

I take a deep dive into this in my new video: How grace fixes everything

Enjoy!

Dwight

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How to fix everything with the presence of Jesus

Four decades ago, my life was a mess. We had money problems, marriage issues, mental health stress. I desperately wanted help, but instead of getting help at church, I was being threatened with excommunication.

Yeah.

I went to Christians to try to get answers, but the only answers they had were: pray about it and try harder.

This sent me on an odyssey of discovery where I needed to dig in with God and find the answers nobody else seemed to have. And the path was not easy. It took me through bankruptcy, hunger, homelessness, rejection, cancer, and more, but along the way, God was kind to me, and He showed up, and showed me how to go beyond platitudes and get the answers from Him that work in real life.

About a year and half ago, God spoke to me and asked me to put those answers in a book. “I want you to write a book,” He said, “a book on how to fix everything.”

So here it is. Brand new. Just hit Amazon yesterday. Here’s the link…

A few people read it and said nice things. Here’s what my friend Steve Roller said:

Life hack: Open to any random page in How to Fix Everything. Read it. Do what it says. Next day, do the same. Or read the entire book in one sitting and soak it in. I have never seen a book so profound and so simple at the same time. It won’t solve the world’s problems (but it might be a start). It will solve yours. Do yourself a favor and get it today.

And listen, can you do me a favor, please? If you do get the book and you do like it, would you please consider leaving a review on Amazon. Your review—much more than anything I can do—helps get this book into the hands of people who can benefit from it.

Many thanks!

Dwight

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