Author: DwightClough

Not enough time?

For many years, I measured my worth by how much I accomplished on a given day. I had a big stack of things to do. If I made a big dent on that pile, I felt good about myself.

But the stack was always bigger than the time I had available. Every day I was leaving things undone. Important things. Urgent things.

If only there was some way to squeeze 36 hours into a 24-hour day!

I thought of myself as busy, and I felt frazzled. Never enough time in the day.

But somewhere along the line, the Lord spoke to me, and He reminded me of a familiar verse:

“The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not be in want.” (Psalm 23:1)

He went on to say: Why are you saying you don’t have enough time? I haven’t shortchanged you on time. I’ve given you all the time you need…

That was a major turnaround for me. I have all the time I need.

And here’s how it works for me, anyway, in real life: I invest about an hour almost every day taking a walk with God. No real agenda—usually. I usually “pray” through my prayer list at a different time. I have a different time for Bible reading.

Just God and me, walking along a country road or through a quiet park. Sometimes I tell Him what’s happening in my life, what I’m thinking, how I’m feeling, what I’m experiencing. Sometimes I ask Him questions. Sometimes I tell Him how grateful I am for life.

But mostly I just hang out with God, not saying a whole lot, just enjoying His company.

It has become the most important hour of my day—the most treasured.

I don’t do it for the purpose of getting anything out of it—other than the sheer pleasure of being with God. But here’s what has happened over and over again:

The project I was working on—spinning my wheels, getting nowhere… I get a breakthrough idea, and I end up finishing it much faster than I thought I would. Or I realize that half the things on my to do list just don’t matter that much—I can let them go and I will be okay.

I find that I have room to breathe. While, sure, I have my moments, characteristically, my life has become calm, unhurried, serene.

I pass this on to you. If you’re struggling to keep up, maybe it’s time to just take a walk with God—hang out with Him, and see what happens.

Be encouraged!

Dwight

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The only thing that matters

Years ago we had a special speaker at our church. He was the pastor of a mega church, and had one of those “Christian rock star” resumes—he had done it all. But somewhere in the middle of his life of accomplishments, something he didn’t expect happened—he ended up on the operating table. Heart surgery I believe.

During that operation, his spirit left his body, and he came face to face with Jesus.

At that moment—looking into the eyes of Jesus—he realized something that forever changed his perspective—and, to be honest, forever changed mine.

None of it mattered.

He built a huge thriving church from scratch.

It didn’t matter.

He was a leader of leaders, a Christian superstar in his part of the country.

It didn’t matter.

Only one thing mattered.

Did he do what Jesus asked him to do?

At the end of our lives, Jesus isn’t going to look over our list of accomplishments. He doesn’t really care how successful we’ve been by the standards of this world. He’s just going to ask one question:

Did you do what I asked you to do?

I hope I have the courage to do that. I hope I get it right.

I hope you do too.

Dwight

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25 questions that might help you

Sometimes the key to getting where we need to go in life is just a matter of asking the right questions.

I recently wrote a book, the Empower Good Meeting Guide. Most of the book is just questions—questions you can discuss with your friends (or ponder on your own). It’s a great book if you and a few friends want to get together and grow in your faith.

Every question in the book is numbered. Here are 25 of my favorite:

 

#405. What do you see as some significant milestones in your faith journey?

#507. What do you see as the difference between success and significance?

#509. Why did God put you here? (you individually)

#530. How do we carry the life-changing presence of Jesus into a broken world?

#703. How would you define or describe a healthy relationship?

 

#803. Who are you? What is your identity? What is God telling you about who you are?

#807. How do you experience the love of God?

#916. How do you repair a broken relationship?

#932. What is the good locked up inside you? What is the good work God is doing inside you?

#1007. How do we build a high trust community?

#1111. What’s your Christian Superpower?

#1150. How are you showing up for the people who most need your love?

 

#1163. What is your process for discerning what God is saying to you?

#1204. What is the process God uses to transform us?

#1507. When and where are you most likely to encounter God?

#1514. In what ways are healing, transformation, and discipleship connected?

 

#1543. What’s the difference between you working for God and God working in you? Why does it matter?

#1618. Who needs to be on your team? How can we help you build your team?

#1809. What is the difference between forgiving others and condoning sin?

#1902. What does it mean to hang out with God? How do you do it?

 

#1903. Are you allowing God to think big inside you?

#1916. What’s the difference between being teachable and being gullible?

#2103. Why is it important to give God the freedom to be who He wants to be and to do what He wants to do in our lives?

#2214. How can we show our world a higher path?

#2306. How is the gospel more than just a free ticket to heaven?

 

Enjoy!

Dwight

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Ten things I pray every day

Here are 10 things I pray for every day. I invite you to join me!

#1. I pray that the blinders will be lifted so all can see You are a good God worth following. (2 Corinthians 4:4, Matthew 6:9)

#2. I pray that the church will move forward. (What I mean here is that the Kingdom of God, the purposes of God will advance all over the world.)

#3. I pray You will end the divide among Your people. (John 17:20-23)

#4. I pray You will send laborers into the harvest field. (Matthew 9:37-38)

#5. I pay You will restrain the hand of evil worldwide. (Ephesians 6:10-20)

#6. I ask You to defend, strengthen, heal our persecuted brothers and sisters in Christ. (Hebrews 13:3)

#7. I pray that You will grant our leaders the fear of the Lord, and the wisdom, courage, and motivation to make righteous decisions—even in face of bullies. (1 Timothy 2:1-4)

#8. I pray for the healing of our nation, and the healing of our culture. (This is implied in the Great Commission in Matthew 28:18-20.)

#9. I pray that truth will triumph over deception; justice and mercy will triumph over injustice; and understanding, respect, trust, love will triumph over polarization. (James 3:13-18, etc.)

#10. I pray for the end of poverty as we know it. (Galatians 2:10, etc.)

Be encouraged!

Dwight

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Five of my go to Bible passages

The Bible is a big book. It can feel overwhelming. Where do you start?

Today, I would like to share with you a few of my favorite go-to passages (with links to them). Here they are!

When I’m facing trouble—Psalm 34

When I’m not sure if I should believe someone—James 3:13-18

When I want to understand who I am—1 John 3:1-10

When I need more faith—Hebrews 11

When I want to read a good story—2 Kings 6:8-23

Enjoy!

Dwight

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Blind faith?

 

Without faith, it is impossible to please God. Hebrews 11:6

 

Without faith we can’t have a relationship with God.

But it’s important to understand that God doesn’t ask us to jump off a cliff with our eyes closed. It’s not that kind of faith. God doesn’t ask us to believe without any confirmation. He doesn’t ask for blind faith.

From miraculous answers to prayer to transformational meetings with Jesus, I’ve experienced God dozens of different ways. And that’s no fluke. It’s meant to be the norm for followers of Jesus. God expects us and invites us to experience Him. “Taste and see that God is good.” (Psalm 34:8)

In addition, we don’t throw out our reason when we embrace faith. There are thousands of good reasons for following Jesus. Here’s one of them: From the get go, many have hated Christianity, and wanted to shut it down. Why didn’t they do it? Early opponents to Christianity could have easily shut down the faith I now embrace. All they needed to do was produce the body of Jesus Christ. Believe me, they wanted to. But they couldn’t. The tomb was empty. The soldiers they hired to guard the grave were powerless to stop the Son of God from returning to life.

Never think God is calling you to blind faith. God is calling you to a beautiful and reasonable journey with Him, enriched by experience, reason, and faith.

Dwight

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What is Heaven like?

What is heaven like?

Cartoonists have portrayed heaven like this: We’re all dressed in robes, strumming on harps, bouncing from cloud to cloud.

Really?

I mean that would be interesting for what? 42 seconds maybe. What about the rest of eternity?

Well meaning pastors have portrayed heaven as an endless church service or an endless song service.

I’m sorry. No.

Not the case. (And I’m glad it’s not the case. I’ve been in some great church services, and I’ve been in some where I’ve felt like walking out, but in either case I wouldn’t want it to go on forever and ever.)

So… before I get into what heaven is actually like, two things:


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Okay, what will heaven be like?

Here are some thoughts:

#1. You will be safe. For anyone who has ever been abused, assaulted, lived in an unsafe neighborhood, put up with a toxic relationship, lived in a dysfunctional family—this is huge. You won’t need to be afraid any more. You can relax. You’re safe. You’re home—really home.

#2. You will belong. You are invited in. No one is going to defriend you, exclude you, look down on you, judge you. You will be welcome. Everyone will be glad to see you. All these things that divide people down here won’t exist up there—rich, poor, Left, Right, smart, not so smart, whatever. We will grow out of all that nonsense.

#3. You will be fully alive. This is where you finally achieve your full potential. The work you do will be work you absolutely love—I-can’t-wait-for-Monday-morning type work—work that makes a difference in the lives of other people. When you’re not working, every moment will be filled with wonder, with joy, with gratitude, with contentment. There will be just the right mix—for you—of excitement and of peace and calm. And, BTW, the technology will be… let’s just say… out of this world.

#4. You will be loved. Deeply. By God. By others. God wants your loved ones to be there, and He wants you to be able to share eternity with them. You will also make new friends with people from every generation of human history. People you’ve read about—you will meet. You’ll like them, they will like you.

#5. No more deception. Our culture and our every day life experience are buried under layers and layers of deception. It’s the enemy’s primary tool. It’s how he keeps hatred, arrogance, crime, poverty, family dysfunction, toxic relationships, anxiety, shame, anger, resentment, and every kind of problem entrenched. Heaven rips away every layer of that deception and leaves us with the soothing, healing, comforting truth.

#6. No more hurts. No more goodbyes. No more disease. No more pain. No more bad days, bad moods, bad experiences. All of that hurt is gone.

#7. God will be there. The better you know God, the more meaningful this is to you. You’ll discover how good He is, how kind He is, how wise He is, how strong He is, how much He loves you.

One final thought. Reread the Great Commission in Matthew 28. Our job is not only to put people on the train to heaven; it’s also to bring heaven to earth. What is God asking you to do today to help bring that about?

Be encouraged!

Dwight

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Taste and see

How do you decide if you like a new recipe?
You taste it!
God invites you to do the same with Him.
Try Him out, and discover how good He really is. (Psalm 34:8)

Why does God invite us to taste?

Why does He not say, for example, “Take it by faith: The LORD is good.”?
Why doesn’t He structure this verse as a promise: “Someday you’ll find out that the LORD is good.”?
Or a conditional promise: “If you obey, you will someday find out that the LORD is good.”?
Neither does God say: “Comprehend My goodness.” There will always be things about God that we cannot comprehend or explain. This is why we need eternal life—it takes all of eternity to know God.

No.

Our God presents us with an invitation.
He wants us to taste.
He wants us to experience His goodness and His love. This is a different kind of faith. This is not a faith that springs from the acceptance of a creed or a Bible verse. This is a faith that springs from experience.

How will we know that God is good?

The Lord invites us to taste and see.

Be encouraged!

Dwight

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How do you think about God?

What ultimately determines what kind of life you’re going to live?

How you think about God.

How you think about God determines whether you will be happy or sad, bitter or full of gratitude, torn apart or deeply at peace. It determines whether your life will have meaning or whether it comes up empty.

For example, if you think (deep down) God is mostly disgusted with you, angry at you, disappointed in you, you are going to have a very difficult time trusting God with your deepest hurts—and, as a result, have a difficult time finding healing for them. But if you believe God’s anger is directed not at you, but at all the things that are trying to destroy you, then it becomes easier to love and trust Him.

A while back I wrote nine parables to explain what I think God has taught me about Himself over the last 68 years. The other day, I decided to make those parables public.

Here it is in my newest book: The Blind School Bus Driver.

It’s on Amazon, and hey, the nicest thing you can do for an author besides buying and reading his or her book is to return to Amazon and leave an honest review. It helps more than you know.

Thanks in advance!

Dwight

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The tricky business of belief

(A little longer than usual – published by request)

Beliefs are tricky.
You can be 100% correct—
and, at the same time, terribly, horribly wrong.

Most people don’t understand this.

For centuries Christians have battled one another in an effort to nail down the correct theology, doctrine, Bible interpretation, denomination, or whatever.
More recently, the focus seems to be on WWJV—
What Would Jesus Vote or who would Jesus vote for (or against).

And, of course, we all think we’re right, that God is on our side.

But is God on our side?
Is He?

That brings me back to Joshua chapter 5: Joshua, the chosen leader, leads the people of God into the Promised Land, and walks up the road leading to Jericho. There he sees a man (or someone who looks like a man) standing in the middle of the road with a drawn sword in his hand.

Interesting.
A warrior.

So Joshua asks what—on the surface—seems like a perfectly reasonable question:
“Are you for us or for our enemies?”

The reply?
The angelic warrior, the commander of the armies of the Lord shakes his head.
“Neither.”

Let that sink in.

Because 3,400 years later, we’re still asking the same question:
Are You for us or are You for our enemies?

And without giving God time to reply, we answer for Him. Of course, You’re for us. After all, we’re right.

But if we had waited for the reply, I think we would hear: “Neither.”
I’m not here to become a tool in your machine.

Beliefs are tricky.
We very much want to believe that we are right (and you may be) and that God endorses our beliefs.

But let me see if I can explain why it’s not that simple.

Consider this simple drawing of an orange tree:

We have roots, a trunk, branches and leaves, and fruit.
The trunk is our head beliefs: our theology, our political views, our opinions and convictions on everything.
The branches and leaves are our practices, choices, policies, decisions—our deeds.
The fruit could be love, joy, peace, patience, and more of the same; or it could be impatience, moral impurity, envy, unresolved anger, and more of the same.
That brings us to the roots. The roots are our heart beliefs, our gut level beliefs—what feels true, the messages that play in the back of our minds.

We want to take that trunk to God and say, “I’m right. I believe all the correct things about religion and politics.”

But God doesn’t just look at the trunk. He looks at the whole tree.

So yeah, you and I can be 100% correct, and, at the same time, horribly wrong.

All of this gives context to a powerful passage in James:

“Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such ‘wisdom’ does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.” James 3:13-18 NIV

How does God decide if we’re “correct” or not?

Look at the contrast:

“Correct beliefs” or wisdom:
• good life
• humility
• purity
• peace-loving
• considerate
• submissive
• full of mercy
• good fruit
• impartial
• sincere
• peacemaking
• righteousness

“Wrong beliefs” or nonwisdom
• bitter envy
• hidden selfish ambition
• boasting (arrogance)
• denial
• earthly
• unspiritual
• demonic
• disorder
• every evil practice

With all this in mind, I want to offer a couple of observations and then a prescription.

Observation #1: Arrogance
One of the biggest obstacles to the forward movement of God’s purposes is arrogance in the people of God. I don’t know what God is doing, has done, or will do in your life to knock you off your pedestal, but believe me, He will if He hasn’t already. I say this as someone who has been humbled again and again by failure, by poverty, by embarrassing health problems, by disappointment—I don’t know how much arrogance is left in me, but I can tell you by the grace of God it’s less than it was.

I can say this to you and I can say it to me: If we’ve stopped listening, if we’re always right, if we can’t learn, if we consider other people inferior to us, we’re already wrong. Remember that Jesus rejoiced that God’s wisdom was hidden from those who thought they were wise (Matthew 11:25-26, see also Proverbs 26:12).

Observation #2: Anger
Eliphaz, who was wrong about so many things, was right when he said, “Resentment kills a fool.” There’s a reason we are told not to make friends with a hot-tempered man (Proverbs 22:24-25). Unresolved anger gives the devil a foothold in our lives (Ephesians 4:26-27); it creates a bitter root, and through it many are defiled (Hebrews 12:15).

Anger will trick us into thinking we are wise when we are not. This is particularly important if you have experienced injustice or if you belong to a group that has experienced injustice.

Here’s why: The enemy’s purpose in injustice is to mess with how you think, to warp your beliefs. He wants to keep you so focused on the hurt that you can’t see how he’s messing with your mind.

When Jesus experienced gross injustice, His response was: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they’re doing.” Likewise, Stephen, the first Christian martyr, died forgiving. Stephen triumphed over the enemy because he died with a pure heart.

Political parties (and yes, I mean all of them) trawl for unresolved anger because they know if they can harness your anger, they will have you on their leash forever.

Years ago, I sat in a restaurant with a man who loudly complained about people of color “playing the race card.” But when I dug into his backstory, I discovered that he experienced what he believed to be great injustice when he was a child. His loud—and rather embarrassing—rant wasn’t about race at all. It was about unresolved anger, unhealed hurts.

And that brings me to a prescription:

Fix the roots first.
You cannot have a healthy tree without healthy roots. Those messages that play in the back of your mind matter. They dictate how you experience your life. They color your head beliefs (the trunk), influence your decisions (branches and leaves), and ultimately determine whether the fruit of your life will be sweet or rotten.

Fix the roots first.

Bring those hurts, all that injustice, that damaged past, those things that feel true—even though we know they aren’t—all those lies we’ve been taught to believe—bring it all to Jesus.

Not just once. But as a lifelong practice.

“What do You want me to know?” That needs to be a daily prayer.

We are broken people—you and me—but Jesus makes us whole.

Dwight

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